Kristina is MAHJOY!!!

I have talked about Kristina. Not much, but I have.

Well things keep rolling, and I have to say I am absolutely falling in love with this woman. It's on. She is SOOO right for me, and we have so much fun together, and there is always a consistent effort to be positive and constructive and supportive and helpful.

She is :

Kind

Considerate

Funny, very funny. Her invader zim impressions are worth gold. And she makes funny voices when she tells stories, and she makes noises and isn't aware of it sometimes. SHE MAKES HER OWN SOUND EFFECTS YO! It's doesn't get any better than that.

She plays video games, many of the same games I play and a whole nother genre of games I don't have the patience to play.

She used to play role playing games and I hazard to think she could be talked into it again if the situation was right hehehe.

She reads really fast and reads alot.

She is brilliant.

She is very supportive and caring.

She is a snuggler/hugger/nuzzler/wiggler, meaning she wants to touch and be touched easily as much as I do, so there is never an issue of me trying to give her a hug or a kiss and I get shrugged off. She will stop what she is doing to give me a kiss. Just like stop what she is doing and give me the thirty seconds of attention that I wanted just to get a little kiss. IT'S AWESOME!

She is beautiful, oh she is beautiful. She has the curliest craziest red hair, and the cutest freckles EVER. And I'll not go on anymore about this part cause. Damn.

She is very independant. She has her own thing going on and her own goals and dreams and she is my age so when I make arcane pop culture referances she knows them and goes me one better and brings up the "other" thing that was always associated with whatever I mentioned.

She makes her own little pop culture referances and movie qoutes.

She is into some unique stuff I don't know alot about but enjoy likfe celtic music and bellydancing and history.

She likes me for who I am and she never makes faces or acts like she is embarrased to be with me. I can act as silly as I want and she just laughs and smiles and accepts me.

I can't explain how wonderfull that feels. It's like being free all the time.

It's like being free. All the time.

Those of you who got to meet her got to see it. When she opens up a bit, she is a shining light of joy. She is merriment.

She brightens up at the smallest thing and shines for hours off of it. 

For me, it's serious. I want her around all the time. But I can't exactly let go of everything and just accept it. So we are taking things slow.  Yeah I know I can hear the jokes already, "Slow, what does that mean Kevin, instead of buying her a car you'll just make the payments on her current one"!

Yeah Yeah I know. No I actually mean slow. She has her own thing and I have mine. We are spending alot of time together and she has clothes in my dresser, but she isn't moving in. She is worried about the kids and I am too. So the kids are really setting the pace for us. We are good. She and I. We are solid as far as I can tell. I am very comfortable around her and I really really want all my friends to get to hang out with her now. In a situation where we can be chill and joke and all that stuff. She got to meet a few but it has been a situation where there was other stuff going on and we couldn't just hang out.

But like I said. We are working it. We are enjoying what is happening and I am loving every minute of it.  She is awesome, and she is Mahjoy. She makes me very happy and I think I make her happy. Cause she seems happy. And I love that too.

OK quick update, SCHOOL:

I have an A in both my classes and I am at midterms. YEAH! It only took me till 30 to appreciate school and handle it properly.

MONKIES:

The boys are doing good. Christian got A/B Honor Roll this semester and his teacher thinks he can pull out A honor roll next semester.

Aaron got all S's on his report card and needs to practice his handwriting. He is doing very well and he is using his tools to work on his temper and his blow ups and it is all working pretty well.

Aside from regular sibling rivalry they are getting along and having a fun time and sticking to their responsibilities pretty well.

Kristina got them both a Betta fish cause they keep talking about a pet. So far we are in day2 of the betta fish and they have fed them on time and not gotten in a fight over them and they really are excited about them.

I got them venus flytraps 2 weeks ago and those are still alive. So things are going well.

The move was stressfull and to be honest it's not completely over cause there are still boxes in the garage, but with school and work and the boys and Mahjoy, there is alot to do in a week and I have to  prioritize work boys and school before most other stuff. Including Mahjoy. But she is cool like that she understands.

Love you guys.